These type of individuals may have a lack of confidence or some physical feature that prevents them from feeling good about themselves in a sexual capacity.
In college culture, hooking up is often fueled by alcohol which implies that under sober circumstances women would choose not to have sex with a casual acquaintance.It should be noted that in the Reid, Elliot and Webber study neither men or women seem to be particularly happy with NSA sex but women are less happy.It can simply be a heartwarming conversation about mine or her day at work.It is nice to have someone on the other end of the phone who cares or at least listens to how I am feeling.This is a relatively new field of study and clearly the jury is out on how men and women experience casual sex.
So I will revert to the basic question of nature versus nurture.
It is alive and well and fills a need that every human has.
The only real difference is that some people do not feel comfortable meeting face to face.
One thing is for certain, I am not ready to learn how to use any new gadgets, so for the time being, I will leave sexting to the young ones.
Yet, I could be inclined to try some video chatting.
Oddly enough for a city that is rich in socialism, there are a huge amount of singles.